I'm not perfect. But surprise!! Either is anyone else. One of my goals for myself is to be a good friend. I know that I used to be, I was always there when people needed to talk, and to lend a helping hand when I could, and now it seems harder to do. Why?
My friends are not telling me when they need me. They are not telling me what is happening in their lives, they are not telling me if something has made them sad or worried, and I just can't help when they dont' tell me. I can't just know things.
When I do see that something has gone wrong I call, or I text, or I try to check in. The responses I receive? Little to none. Usually none. I'm not sure what to do...
I want to be a good friend. I want to help. I care about my friends and I want them to know that. What am I to do? Honestly, post your hints, please. I don't want to be a bad friend. I miss my friends, seeing them and chatting with them and knowing what is going on. Whatever you suggest (as long as it is reasonable) I will try.
For my friends if you can see this, I am still here. I have not left. I miss you all, and I'm here when you need me.
My friends are not telling me when they need me. They are not telling me what is happening in their lives, they are not telling me if something has made them sad or worried, and I just can't help when they dont' tell me. I can't just know things.
When I do see that something has gone wrong I call, or I text, or I try to check in. The responses I receive? Little to none. Usually none. I'm not sure what to do...
I want to be a good friend. I want to help. I care about my friends and I want them to know that. What am I to do? Honestly, post your hints, please. I don't want to be a bad friend. I miss my friends, seeing them and chatting with them and knowing what is going on. Whatever you suggest (as long as it is reasonable) I will try.
For my friends if you can see this, I am still here. I have not left. I miss you all, and I'm here when you need me.