It's official, I'm happier when I'm not looking for someone to date. After the last two attempts and the drama that they came with, I decided to take a break. It's only been a couple weeks, but I think that I'm going to make it a little bit of a longer break...Although I'm sure I'll cave soon.
When I'm not looking for someone I can wear my flat shoes (I've decided if I wear high heels I'll stop attracting short men) and I can wear my hair in a ponytail with my hat, or even yoga pants instead of jeans. This is a wonderful way to live! I can go anywhere I want whenever I feel like it and not worry about whether or not he'll care, and I can plan with my friends as often as I want. I'm not constantly worried about how perfect my make up is or if my purse matches (not like any guy would notice that anyway...)
Perhaps I can now find the secret to finding someone. Maybe it's in the not looking, the not persuing, and the not pretending