My friends and I are growing apart. "Get a boyfriend"
Sometimes I feel lonely. "Start dating"It seems people feel the solution to make my life perfect is seen to be start dating someone, find a boyfriend, pair off. This to me makes a little sense in that I'd have someone to talk to when I'm lonely, BUT I've learned on my road of life that having a boyfriend can be more trouble then you'd expect, and sometimes you're still lonely. I don't know that looking outside myself is the right way to find happiness, being that I! not sure I can be happy with someone if I can't be happy with myself to start. I think that in order to fins the right man I need to be able to offer as much as I will need, to work as a team and to compromise. I must not enter on an uneven level, and I can't be in a situation to make my problems become his problems. I need to feel confident, I need to look and feel attractive, and I need to know that I like who I am so that I can see others will like me too. Then and only then can I enter a healthy relationship and expect to keep it that way. So, as I'm feeling good about me, perhaps its time to return to the world of dating BUT it must be in a way I'm comfortable with, and I'm not jumping into a relationship with the first guy who I see, unless I really believe he could be where I'm supposed to be. I guess we'll see what happens!!