I've been listening to all the girls talking, and we all want to know, what is with the boy drama? Have you noticed that the "men" of certain age are more drama then their female counterparts? The men my age seem to be fairly ok, but there seems to be the odd drama flair up even with them. They seem to be the way I remember 14 year old girls but they are running around with the responsibilities of full grown men and expecting to be treated as such...
I don't remember there being so much drama with the boys in school. Uually they just got pushed around by the girls and did whatever was expected of them. They stayed calm and dealt with relationships one day at a time. During break ups they were a little sad then moved on. Now it seems there are disagreements all the time and problems in their relationships. I'm glad to stay out and watch or hear of it all second hand. I'm also very glad that my friends aren't nearly as bad as those guys seem to be...
So I decided to look around, see who's out there that I might be interested in, and wow did I find more drama then I expected! Granted he was a little younger then me, but I wouldn't have thought it was enough that things would have been so ridiculous. It seems as though guys now (and lots of girls too!) go out once and decide they are in a relationship... I always thought you went on a few dates and things grew, but now apparently one date and you're positioned for a break up. No wonder they are all so upset all the time! They are breaking up with people that I wouldn't have even thought I was in a realtionship with. This gets even more complicated when only one person thinks that way, as then someone is gauranteed to get hurt. I guess now I know to watch out for that.
So then I decide that I'll go back to dating a couple years older instead of a couple years younger. I thought older then me should be more mature, we can talk like adults and there will be no drama. WRONG! Not only did HE cause drama and have a few minor over-reactions to things, every time I made it all better or we talked about it, someone else would get in the middle. Granted once it was my very own fault, and I will honestly say that I've learned my lesson and that person will no longer have any interaction or opinion in my dating life, but the other time was not quite me... It's a lot of "he said this" and "she said that" and all of a sudden it's stupid. Yup, I know better, but sometimes lessons need to be relearned. I would have thought a man would just say that's not how it is and move on with life, but apparently mixed signals are the way to go. Thank you Sex and The City's Mr. Big, although you managed to pull it off, not everyone else can. Maybe if I find my own inner Carrie I could sort it out, but it seems like an awful lot of work to run damage control every week...might be easier just to move on from him and our interferring friend.
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